Skip 'hi' and 'asl'.

Generic openers get generic replies. A little specificity goes a long way.

Lead with a real question.

'What's something you're into lately?' beats 'hey' every single time.

Use shared interests.

Pick your topics first — then you both already have something to talk about.

Be curious, be kind.

That's the whole secret to a conversation that lasts.

Try an opener now