Starting strong is simple once you know the formula. Here's how to open — and actually keep it going.
React to a shared interest or ask an easy, specific question. "What's been the highlight of your week?" beats "hi."
Ask, then build on her answer instead of jumping to the next question. People feel it when you're actually listening.
A little playfulness goes a long way. Don't rush, don't overthink, and never open with a wall of text.
The fastest way to get comfortable? Talk to more people. Match with someone new and just start.