Boring chats aren't boring people.

They're boring patterns. 'Hey / how are you / good, you?' is a script with nowhere to go.

Being interesting is about them.

The people we find most engaging ask good questions and make us feel interesting. It's a skill, not a personality.

Trade, don't interview.

For every question you ask, share something back. A good conversation is tennis, not a job interview.

Practice gives you reps.

Every chat is low-stakes practice. Try two tips on your next one and feel the difference.

Practice on a real chat →