It's not random — it's a playbook.

Catfishing follows a predictable pattern once you know what to look for.

Step one: the perfect profile.

Stolen or AI-generated photos, a curated backstory built to seem instantly relatable to you.

Step two: fast emotional investment.

Love-bombing and constant attention build trust quickly — before you've had a real chance to verify anything.

The ask comes last.

Money, gift cards, or personal info — usually framed as an emergency. Knowing the pattern is your best defense.

Talk to someone real instead