Just enough to keep you interested.

Breadcrumbing is sending occasional messages or attention — not enough for a real connection, but enough to stop you from moving on.

It's not always intentional.

Sometimes it's laziness, not manipulation. But the effect on you is the same either way — you're stuck waiting.

The fix is simple, not easy.

If weeks pass between real effort, that's your answer. Stop collecting crumbs and go find an actual conversation.

Find someone who shows up.

Skip the crumbs. Talk to someone who's actually here for the conversation right now.